- Hang out with friends who also believe that it’s OK not to be ready for sex yet.
- Go out with a group of friends rather than only your date.
- Introduce your friends to your parents.
- Invite your friends to your home.
- Stick up for your friends if they are being pressured to have sex.
- Think of what you would say in advance in case someone tries to pressure you.
- Always carry money for a telephone call or cab in case you feel uncomfortable.
- Be ready to call your mom, dad or a friend to pick you up if you need to leave a date.
- Never feel obligated to “pay someone back” with sex in return for a date or gift.
- Say “no” and mean “no” if that’s how you feel.