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Does your child feel it's OK to talk with you about sexuality? If not, have you thought about who will answer your child's questions? Only you can tell your child that it's OK to ask you questions-that you're askable.

Here are some traits of an askable parent. Check off phrases that describe you. An askable parent:
  • Shows respect, value and love for children.
  • Realizes that every difficult situation is not a crisis.
  • Wants communication, but doesn't expect to have all the answers.
  • Knows the most important part of communication is listening.
  • Doesn't laugh when a child asks a question, even in reaction to the child's cuteness.
  • Doesn't expect to be perfect, and knows that admitting mistakes is a valuable lesson for the child.
  • Is sometimes embarrassed by sexuality, but acknowledges the discomfort and explains it to the child.

Children are more likely to talk to an approachable parent. If you check all seven answers, you are very askable.

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